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【中英双语】没有人陪,自己去度假,应该感到沮丧吗?

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I don't have any close friends, am anintroverted person but want to go on vacation this summer. I've saved up somemoney and decided to either visit a new country/city or just chill in awellness hotel somewhere.

我没有任何好朋友,我是个内向的人但是这个夏天我想去度假。我已经存了一些钱,并且决定要么去游览一个别的国家或城市,或是待在某地的一个康养酒店里

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When I casually told this my really extrovertedsister (who is 3 years older than me) she couldn't believe I'm doing such"old people" stuff as going to a wellness hotel alone. I didn'treally know what to say and now I'm very insecure about my plans :(

当我无意间和我性格外向的姐姐(她比我大三岁)说到我的计划时,她简直不敢相信 我要去做独自住康养酒店这样的“老年”活动。我不知道要说什么而且现在我对自己的计划很没信心

Anybody can cheer me up?

有人能鼓励我一下吗?



【国外网民评论翻译】:

ImitationButter
Nah. Going on vacation alone is perfectlyfine. I’d probably go alone even if I had friends

不。独自去度假特别好。即便我有朋友,我也可能会自己一个人去



Martblni
What would you do on vacations? I thoughtabout going like that but really it will be too boring and lonely for me

在度假期间你要做什么呢?我想过自己去但是对我来说这样将会很无聊且孤独



samajakerino
Not sad at all! As long as it doesn't makeyou feel uneasy, travelling alone is a very fun experience!

一点儿也不用伤心!只要这么做不会让你感觉不舒服,那么独自旅行就是很有趣的经历!



bakofud
I had the exact same thoughts. Safety wouldbe my only concern depending on where you are traveling to.

我的观点和你完全一样。安全可能是我唯一的担心,这取决于你要去哪儿旅行



loercase
I agree, I travelled (mostly) by myself for4 or 5 years. Awesome time, made so many friends, lots to see and do. Downside:there were times of loneliness, and a lot of attractions are dull to see withnobody to share them with, but it's easy to make friends if you put yourselfout there. Stay at hostels and be open to going out and doing things withpeople you only just met.

我同意,有4到5年时间我(基本上)都是自己出去旅行。超棒的时光,交了如此多的朋友,有很多要去看和做的事情。不好的一面:会有孤独的时候,很多景点景点看起来很无趣因为身边没有人分享,但是如果你把自己放到那里,很容易交到朋友。住在旅馆,对和刚认识的人一道出去和做一些事情保持开放态度



IAmA_Risky_Click_AMA
I think it's weird that some people areincapable of traveling alone. Few things are more liberating than exploringsomewhere new on your own time and terms.

有些人没有独自出行的能力,我认为这很怪。很少有事情能比自己花时间探索一些新地方更让人自在的了



AmericanKamikaze
Huh? It’s not sad. Vacationing alone isjust called traveling. Travel as much as you can before you get stuck in a jobor bills.

哈?这并不叫人难过 。一个人去度假才叫旅行。在你忙于工作和付账单之前,尽你所能多去旅行吧。



JessieN
Have fun!

玩得开心点!



anish714
I've never been on vacation alone. I'm apretty introverted person. I wish I had though. No better way to meet newinteresting people than going alone. Especially if you go to a differentcountry.

我从来没有一个人去度过假。我是个非常内向的人。不过我希望我有独自出游的经历。作为一种结交陌生人的方式,独自出行比其他方式都好。特别是当你去到一个陌生的国家时。



plentyfunk66
Just wanted to say no also. I'm prettyintroverted, but I've grown and pushed myself at times to connect with newpeople because it can be a lot of fun. If you're planning on heading somewherethat is relatively touristy, it's nice sometimes to strike up conversation atthe hotel pool or beach. Most people on vacation are in a great state of mindand usually extra friendly, if you hit it off sometimes you can enjoy they'recompany for an afternoon and a few drinks or something (when you're oldenough), then be on your way. That may take some working up to, but it'susually a lot of fun for me if I'm traveling alone or even with my gf. You meetnew people and maybe learn some new stuff about where their from and then neversee them again haha.

我也想说并非如此。我非常内向,但是一直以来我时常逼着自己去和陌生人接触,因为这会很有趣。如果你打算去一些游客很多的地方,有时在酒店泳池或沙滩和别人聊天会很有趣。大多数度假者心情都不错而且通常格外友好。如果投缘,你可以享受他们一个下午的陪伴,一起喝点小酒或别的(如果你年纪够大),那么踏上旅程吧。独自旅行,甚至是和女友一起,可能要费些功夫,但是对我来说通常很有乐趣。你遇到陌生人,可能会了解到他们那儿的新鲜事,这之后就再也见不到他们了很好



-thirtyfiveowls
As a person who goes to a lot of placesalone I will say that the only inconvenience is when you're sitting in publicbut have to get up to use the bathroom/throw away trash/wash your hands etc noone is there to save your seat.

作为一个独自去过很多地方的人,我要说这么做唯一的不方便是当你坐在公共场合,起身去卫生间/扔垃圾/洗手等等时,没有人会为你保留座位



thehro
Checkout this vlog from my country.. thisperson is also 18-19 yrs old. He motivates me. lix

看看这个来自我们国家的短视频吧,这个人也是十八九岁。他激励了我。(链接)



Lilac9999
You’re fine. Introverts like their timealone. A vacation on your own helps you recharge. Just because you’re sister iswired differently than you doesn’t mean you’re wrong.

你这样很好。内向的人喜欢独处。一次独自旅行能帮你充电。只是因为你的姐姐比你更活泼,并不代表你是错的



kippersforbreakfast
Do what you want to do and anyone who has aproblem with it can fuck right off.

做你想做的事情,让任何有想法的人滚一边去



one14four
When I was 25 I went to Alaska by myselffor 8 days, and it was the best thing I've ever done on purpose. I'd neverreally traveled before, not to mention traveling alone, but it ended up beingso, so incredible. It felt incredibly relaxing to have the kind of freedom Icould never get in my daily life. If you go somewhere, I highly recommendkeeping a journal. I wrote a little bit about each day I was there, and Ioccasionally go back and read it when I feel the daily grind getting to me.Good luck, and I hope things turn out well for you!

我在25岁时独自去阿拉斯加待了8天,这是我主动做过的事情里最棒的一件。在此之前我从来没有真正的去旅行过,更别提独自旅行了,但那次之后这种情况就终结了。我获得了平时生活中从未感到的那种自由放松。如果你要去什么地方,我强烈建议你写日志。当我在那儿时,我每天都写点东西,当我感到日常的疲惫袭来时,我偶尔会再读一读这些文字。祝你好运,并且我希望情况会变得对你有利!



tarek122
That seems fun! Thank's for bringing theidea with the journal up.

这似乎很有趣!谢谢你提到记日志这个点子。



vault_dweller1031
Seriously. Eating out alone, movies alone,vacationing alone. It's so peaceful and stress free.

认真地说,独自就餐,独自看电影,独自度假。如此和谐无压力



pluxmania
I actually prefer to travel alone most ofthe time.... and sometimes my friends are like 'can I come too that soundsawesome' and I'm like 'nope... love you loads but would rather have some timealone thanks!'. I'm mid 30's now and I've been doing it regularly since my lateteens, I've never regretted a single trip.

大多数时间我更喜欢独自出游……有时我的朋友会说“那听起来太棒了,我能一起去吗”而我则会说“不…你愿意分担,爱你,但是我更愿意有点独处的时间 谢谢!”我现在30多岁了,从我少年时期至今,我不时地这么做,我从未对独自旅行感到后悔

= It's not at all unusual so don't let anyonetell you otherwise (usually the ones who say it's weird are the people whocan't handle being alone / don't like their own company which makes me thinkthey're the weird ones!!)... and whether you decide to just chill by yourselfor make new random friends at your holiday destination, you don't need otherpeople to have a good time.

这么做一点儿都不算怪异,所以别让别人说服你(通常那些对此感到奇怪的人是一些没办法适应独处/不喜欢自我陪伴的人,这样我感觉他们才是奇怪的那群人!!)你是决定打消念头还是在假日目的地随机地结交新朋友,你不需要别人一起就可以享受一段好时光



tarek122
Thank's so much for your encouraging words!:)

谢谢你说的这些鼓励的话!



xipheon
Things are only sad if the person doingthem isn't happy.
If you tried to get people to go, and endedup going alone anyway, miserable the whole time wishing you had your friends,that's sad.
If you choose to go alone, enjoy yourself,and don't find yourself constantly thinking "I wish I wasn't alone"then it's cool.
You do what you want to do, what you findfun. When I see people that arrange these big group trips and won't go anywherewithout a big group of people to lean on I think that that's sad. From myperspective. That's what they find fun however, so for them that's best.

只有当做事情的人不开心时,事物本身才是叫人沮丧的
如果你试着不理会别人的意见最终独自出游,全程沮丧,希望朋友在身边,这是叫人沮丧的
如果你选择了独自出行,非常享受,而且发现自己没有“我希望我不是一个人”的想法,那么这很酷
你要做那些你想做的事,让你发现乐趣的事。当我看到那些组织大型团体旅行,必须大队人马一起行动去某地的人时,我认为这叫人沮丧。这是我的看法。不过这是他们感觉有趣的方式,所以对他们来说这是最好的。

Once you get out into the travel world, youwill meet dozens of other traveler people, all going their own places, fortheir own reasons.

一旦你步入旅行世界,你将会遇到数十位其他的旅行者,所有人都有自己的目的地,为了各异的目的



tarek122
Thank's for your advices!

谢谢你提的建议!



tessa691
I went on vacation alone when I was 17. Itwas by far the best vacation of my life and I’ve gained so much self-confidencefrom it.

我十七岁的时候独自去度假。到目前为止,那是我生命里最棒的假期,从中我获得了非常多的自信

It is amazing to be able to do whatever thefuck you want. You want to sit in a park for 5 hours? Go right ahead. You wantto go to a museum that everyone else thinks is lame? No one can hold you back! It’sultimate freedom.

能够做任何你想做的事情简直太棒了。你想要在公园里面坐上5个小时?那就去做吧。你想要去一个其他所有人都认为很烂的博物馆?没有人能阻挡你!这是绝对的自由。

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