2021.1.30 - GEC海珠广场外语角第464期活动
更新：2021-01-28 16:32:21 | 分享：Molly ( V92 ) | 来源：参考 | 阅读：9
标签：越秀英语角活动
活动形式： Topic talk + Free talks
活动时间： 2021-1-30(六) 19:15-21:00
活动地点： 海珠广场休憩亭
( 地铁2号线海珠广场站D出口外)
本周 Free talk 前的话题讨论：
《听见她说》让讨好型人格上热搜 Are you a people-pleaser ?
For many, the eagerness to please stems from self-worth issues. They hope that saying yes to everything asked of them will help them feel accepted and liked. Other people-pleasers have a history of maltreatment, and somewhere along the way, they decided that their best hope for better treatment was to try to please the people who mistreated them. Over time, for them, people-pleasing became a way of life.
The next time you see a nice but not very assertive person who doesn’t seem to fit into a particular group of people, it’s worth remembering that s/he is likely to feel particularly uncomfortable. To help this person feel better, you may want to talk to this person and look for things you have in common.
有这样一种人，他们事事讨好别人，但是实则内心非常的挣扎跟矛盾，过得远没有表面那般快乐，这一类人往往就是身边人口中的“老好人”。从心理学上来讲，这类老好人的性格归属于讨好型人格。我们往往会用一个词语来形容这类人——懂事，“懂事”得让人挑不出一点毛病。
Topic discussion reference :
1.Are you a people-pleaser ? Why?
2.Will you make friends with a people-pleaser ?
3.Describe your personality in one sentence.
话题讨论参考：
1.你是讨好型人格吗？为什么？
2.你喜欢和讨好型人格的人交友吗？为什么？
3.用一句话形容下自己的性格
Come to share your opinion! This Saturday night, Haizhu Square !
Words to use:
people-pleaser（讨好别人者）;eagerness（渴望）;please（使愉快）;stems（茎）;self-worth（自我价值）;maltreatment（虐待）;assertive（坚定自信的）;particular（专指的）;uncomfortable（不舒服的）;in common（共有的）;Psychology（心理学）;misfit（与别人合不来的人）;crowd-pleaser（受到广泛喜爱或欢迎的人或事物）;traits（个性）;openness（坦诚）;agreeableness（一致）;
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